September 9, 2011

Becoming an Aunt

I was born into the role of daughter, sister, granddaugter, niece, cousin...  The first familial role that I consciously became was aunt.




Adelaide Elizabeth, now age 2 and-(almost)-a-half, is my sister, Brittany and brother-in-law, Mike's baby. She is such a vibrant child, with the cutest sense-of-humor.

For me, Addie's arrival represented a cross roads in my life. I was finishing my senior year of college in Chicago and a month shy of graduation when she was born. At the time, I was still confused on what I wanted to do with my life post college. I was unsure if I wanted to move to Charlotte, NC (where my family lives) or stay in Chicago, a city that I love...


Then Addie was born. And I held her. And the decision was made.


I am the youngest in my family, and had no concept of how much this little being could change everything. Having Addie as a niece has given me a glimpse into what a mother's love feels like. Watching my sister become a mother and my parents become grandparents has been such a privilege.

This past April, I took on a new role, wife. Anyone else notice that as soon as you get married, everyone and their brother asks when you are going to have a baby? I am more than just a womb, people.
 
In all seriousness, as much as I want to have our own children, I am soaking up this brief moment in time where it is just my husband and I. Until I take on the title, Mom- our sweet niece has allowed me to be the next best thing, Aunt B.

A few days ago, I went in to get Addie up from her nap and she greeted me with, "Hi Aunt B. Where's Uncle Jake? Where's your camera?"... Maybe a sign that I take too many photos of her. I will admit, in the beginning it was a bit excessive. I would change her into 14 different outfits and pose her with stuffed rabbits. Now I like to sit back and take my cues from her.

Here are some of my favorite photos that I have taken of Addie recently:



Being an aunt is the greatest. To top it off, our family continues to grow, Jake's brother, Zach, and his wife, Jenna, are expecting a baby at the end of this month. S(he) will be the first grandchild on the Koneman side of our family. I can't wait to meet the little one and become an aunt all over again.

13 comments:

  1. I came across this when I was searching for things on becoming an aunt. Just found out my brother and sister-in-law are expecting. My mom is freaking out refusing to be called grandma! I cannot wait to be a auntie! you have a beautiful niece!

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  2. Hello! I just started following your blog. I agree, being an aunt is great. It's so precious, and I'm trying to soak it up as well. :)

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  3. شراء الاثاث المستعمل بجدة من العملاء باسعار لا تقبل المنافسه وهذا من اجل اننا الشركة الاولى فى ارقام محلات شراء الاثاث المستعمل بمختلف انواعه بجدة حيث اننا ناتى الك فور تلقى اتصالك وبعد ذلك نقوم بمعاينة الاثاث وتحديد السعر المناسب له بكل امان وضمير وذلك لاننا شركة شراء اثاث مستعمل بجدة نتعامل دائما بالمصداقيه والامانه من اجل ان نحصل على ثقة العميل بنا ومن اجل ان نكتسب العميل كعميل متفاعل فى شركتنا افضل شركة شراء اثاث مستعمل فى جده

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